Tuesday, December 18, 2012

Day 6 of 40 days of Thanks

I am thankful for Hugs....

I love Hugs, they are so nice, and warm. They feel good... a hug can mean different things, Hi, see you later, I love you and sometimes they can just be comforting... either way they feel good... and I'm giving out Cyber Hugs to anyone who is visitnig my blog ((((((HUGS))))) :-)

#1/21/13 Fiercely Fabulous and 40


Opening My Eyes....

I started on Dec 13, doing a 40 days of Thanks and Praying 3 times a day for 40 days..and I am only 6 days in and God has definitely been revealing some things and some people in my life that I need to change.. Things that I had been struggling with are now clear... I mean if it's only been 6 days I am so excited about the days to come..

I have mixed feelings about turning 40, but mixed or not I am turning 40 on Jan 21, 2013 ...but I want, rather feel I need to change some things, about me... to help me be a better more Fabulous Me... and when you want or feel the need to Change the only person who can help you is God. And since I know that I am definitely taking full advantage of it, with an open heart, and a open soul.

I know that this journey can only make me better... and prepare me for my 40's. This a new chapter in my life and since I'm not getting any younger, I want to welcome it with open arms. Now during this process somethings and some people will stay around and other things and people won't... shoot some people haven't even made it to day 6 (which is today) let's see how many will make it to day 10...lol

One thing is for certain though, at the end of the 40 days, if it's in God's will I will definitely be Standing and my light WILL be so bright you will need your sunglasses and still won't see my full Shine...

Monday, December 17, 2012

MY!!!! Facbook... (focus on the word MY!)

Ok My name it Tamiko (Storey) Edwards... and I am not alway politically corriect. Nor do I aim to be, especially on My Facebook... (focusing again on MY!!) Facebook is a form of entertainment me to me, along with some seriousness and some newsworthy things as well as a platform to vent, whether it be radomly venting or if you are venting toward a certain person...either way when you or I log on it clearly say "What's on YOUR mind" now to my hometown Friends (Flintstones) and old TDF Song my come to mind...but for others there are a number of things that may come to mind... Because the Question "What's on YOUR mind" is a very broad question and depending on your frame of mind when you open YOUR facebook, anything and I mean anything could end up on YOUR Facebook... at least I know anything could end up on MY Facebook...

I've been know to post some Nice stuff, some Serious stuff, some Stupid stuff, some Fierce pictures, Some Uplifitng things, some NOT so Nice stuff, some Off the wall stuff etc.. you know just stuff... and one thing about me, 85% of the things I post are just random thoughts that are in my head, (if you only knew the things that go thru my head...smh..) but since it's MY Facebook I should be able to post anything (right) and I am ready for any comments that come along...whether you agree or not...and it doesn't matter to me if you do or don't... I'm not going to get mad, nor am I going to facebook beef with you, because you are entitled to YOUR OWN opinion just like I am... although sometimes I feel like I'm not entitled to one, if MY post is not politically or correct, or not nice at all... somebody some where feels the need to tell me how mean or I'm no better than nobody else, or something crazy to that effect....

One thing I've learned since being on facebook, if somebody post something that hits home with you... if you never respond to the post, Nobody will ever know your situation... (just an FYI)

I see plenty of things as I go down my newsfeed that could easily be about me or something in my life... I don't get offened, nor do I instantly think they are talking about me. I don't think that the person who posted think they are better than the next person...maybe that's just how they feel today...sometimes I respond sometimes I keep scrolling... thats the whole Joy of Facebook, the fact that you can just keep scrolling...and another JOY is the Unfriend Option ~_~

I don't think I'm better than anyone, I'm a sinner just like everybody else, and don't let me start couting my flaws...whew  1, 2, 3,.......111.....321... yeah I'm going to stop there, cause that list goes on and on...

So I'm going to say once again, it's MY Facebook and it ask me "What's on Your mind" (meaning MY mind)  just like Yours means You (really it does)... I don't Facebook to please others, I Facebook cause I like too, let me say that one more time I don't Facebook to please others, I Facebook because I like it....and I've come to realize some people are on my Facebook just to see what I may or may not say...

AND.....

 At the end of the day, If you delete me I won't feel any type of way about you, and I will still smile and wave at you if  I see you in the Real World...