Monday, July 27, 2009

Ok, the reason for the Friendship 101 entry.

So me and my friend had an argument...

This is the situation...

At this point everybody knows that I have breast cancer, and I'm on leave from work. So when she goes to work I watch the kids, (my daughter and hers). OK. so I asked/told her last week that she needs to take Tues July 28th off because I had to go to chemo, and I didn't want to take the kids. Because for one, it's a hospital, two I will be getting chemo and there will be others there doing the same thing, three they just make to much noise. and other reasons I don't need to get into...

any ways...

so as far as I know she was taking the day off, so today July 27, I go to her and ask her did she take tomorrow off. She then tells me that she can't take any more days off...(Hold up) so I asked why didn't you tell me that..she said she just found out on Thurs and she forgot I didn't want to take the kids...now how you forget that, I don't know. And it didn't come to you at all even though you are off Fri, Sat and Sun. I mean even when I mentioned, it's my last chemo treatment, or that I didn't want to go. WOW amazes me...

anyways

we get into an argument because I feel like it was inconsiderate, to even forget, this is my life, my health and you forget something as important as this. I mean I understand she has been going thru some stuff, and she has been stressed and I haven't forgot that..But nothing she is going through compares to having cancer. And if it was the other way around, I wouldn't forgot that. Did I mention this is suppose to be my best friend.

1 comment:

  1. I hope you two work it out...it is good you had the argument though at least its in the air and if your two are bffs it will be okay...my best friend and I have been through some trying times where we have yelled and cussed and even went long, I mean months without talking to one another..but we are still bffs...and yes bffs can get through anything...the catch is both have to look at the other as a bff...if she is really your bff...she will see where you are coming from and apologize for being inconsiderate. But it is also true that we give the wrong people the priviledge of being our bff and they don't deserve it.

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