Ok, the reason for the Friendship 101 entry.

So me and my friend had an argument...

This is the situation...

At this point everybody knows that I have breast cancer, and I'm on leave from work. So when she goes to work I watch the kids, (my daughter and hers). OK. so I asked/told her last week that she needs to take Tues July 28th off because I had to go to chemo, and I didn't want to take the kids. Because for one, it's a hospital, two I will be getting chemo and there will be others there doing the same thing, three they just make to much noise. and other reasons I don't need to get into...

any ways...

so as far as I know she was taking the day off, so today July 27, I go to her and ask her did she take tomorrow off. She then tells me that she can't take any more days off...(Hold up) so I asked why didn't you tell me that..she said she just found out on Thurs and she forgot I didn't want to take the kids...now how you forget that, I don't know. And it didn't come to you at all even though you are off Fri, Sat and Sun. I mean even when I mentioned, it's my last chemo treatment, or that I didn't want to go. WOW amazes me...

anyways

we get into an argument because I feel like it was inconsiderate, to even forget, this is my life, my health and you forget something as important as this. I mean I understand she has been going thru some stuff, and she has been stressed and I haven't forgot that..But nothing she is going through compares to having cancer. And if it was the other way around, I wouldn't forgot that. Did I mention this is suppose to be my best friend.