The Pastor's Secretary Called Me...

If you've been reading my blog you know my relationship with me and my church...

Well the other day I was out shopping with my mom. And my phone is always on vibrate. (so if you call and I don't answer I'm not ignoring you) anyways. I had a missed call and a voice mail. I checked the voice mail, and it's a message from my Pastor's Secretary. She left me a message saying my pastor wanted to talk with me. WOW right. I know it was the deaconess or the church nurse who told him about my situation, now he wants to talk.

and guess what? I didn't even call him back. Why? because I really don't know what to say or expect. So now tomorrow is Sunday, and I know he will see me at church. I guess I will see how this goes. If we don' t talk tomorrow. I promise I will call him on Monday..

Happy Birthday Daddy!

Today is the Hubs Birthday. I won't say how old he is, cause he still claims to be 27. Like he ain't a part of the dirty 30 crew. But it's OK I still love him.

So I just want to take time to tell you Happy Birthday. I know we don't have anything planned. We are just gonna wing it. But I hope to see your smile, and I will do what I can to make sure you enjoy yourself this weekend. I love you Daddy...

~ Your Wife..

My Follow - up Appt.

I had a Dr's appointment on Tues 08/25/09, to follow up from surgery and to see if my drains could be taken out. Well the follow up part went ok. My surgeon said I was healing very well..so I was happy about that. But when it came to getting my drains removed, I was almost in tears. Apparently my body is still producing to much fluid to be removed. And I didn't want to hear that shit. Man these tubes are getting on my nerves, It's uncomfortable to sleep, It's uncomfortable when I'm woke, and trying to find something to wear that's can go over the drain tubes, is a whole nother story.....

But since I've seen the Dr. my body has been producing less fluids, and I so happy that today I will be getting 2 of my tubes removed..and hopefully the last one will be out soon. You just don't know how happy I am...I am looking forward to sleeping tonight. and just getting dressed with out the tubes. I don't want much, I just want to put on Jeans and a T shirt, without all worrying about if I squeezing the tubes...

Back to School Dr.'s Appt.

On Monday 8/24/09 I took my daughter to the Dr. to get her back to school physical. And I am proud to say she is just perfect..(that came from her Dr.) She weighs 51 lbs. and is 3 foot 11..Yes that's tall for a 6 yr old. And she is skinny. But I'm am very happy that she is healthy...Thank You Jesus!

She will be starting 1st grade this year.

oh let me tell you this. When I told my baby I was taking her to the Dr. She said she wanted to go the Brown Man....(her Dr. is Black...but in her eyes you are either Brown, White, Asian or Beige...lol).

If You Need Something...

How come when people get sick or something..People always say if you need something let me know. I know they mean good, but really, why do I have to ask. If you know I'm down why don't you just come over and do something. Because secretly you hope I don't need anything. (right).

I mean you know that I have dishes, I have kids, I have a bathroom, I have to go grocery shopping, etc. So don't ask what can you do just do it.

Actually I'm really glad I can do stuff on my own. Because I would be shit out of luck. But I'm not mad, I'm just saying...

and on the other hand if you really want to do something, send me some money because this disability check just ain't cutting it...